ANALYSIS OF THE MARRIAGE IS SCARY PHENOMENON AMONG GENERATION Z
A PERSPECTIVE OF ISLAMIC LAW SOCIOLOGY
Kata Kunci:
Marriage is Scary, Generation Z, Sociology of Islamic Law, Social Media
Abstrak
Fenomena Marriage is Scary di kalangan Generasi Z semakin marak dan mencerminkan perubahan persepsi serta sikap terhadap pernikahan. Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk menganalisis bagaimana komentar di media sosial, khususnya TikTok, mencerminkan persepsi Generasi Z terhadap pernikahan dalam konteks fenomena ini. Menggunakan pendekatan kualitatif dengan metode deskriptif-analitis, sebanyak 63 komentar dikumpulkan dari unggahan TikTok yang membahas tren Marriage is Scary antara November 2024 hingga Januari 2025. Hasil analisis mengidentifikasi lima tema utama: ketakutan terhadap pasangan, ketidakpastian masa depan, konflik dalam rumah tangga, ketakutan finansial, dan pengaruh media sosial. Ketakutan terhadap pasangan menjadi kategori paling dominan, dipengaruhi oleh pengalaman pribadi dan eksposur terhadap narasi negatif mengenai kekerasan dalam rumah tangga serta kegagalan pernikahan. Faktor ekonomi dan ketidakstabilan finansial juga berkontribusi terhadap keputusan Generasi Z untuk menunda pernikahan, sementara ekspektasi sosial dan konflik rumah tangga semakin memperkuat skeptisisme terhadap institusi pernikahan. Dari perspektif sosiologi hukum Islam, fenomena ini mencerminkan tantangan dalam mengharmonisasikan norma hukum Islam dengan realitas sosial yang terus berubah. Hukum Islam menekankan keseimbangan dalam hubungan suami-istri, namun dalam praktiknya masih dipengaruhi oleh ekspektasi budaya patriarki yang menimbulkan kekhawatiran, terutama bagi perempuan. Studi ini menyoroti perlunya edukasi pranikah yang lebih inklusif, tidak hanya berfokus pada aspek normatif tetapi juga mempertimbangkan realitas sosial dan psikologis generasi muda. Penelitian lebih lanjut dapat mengeksplorasi pengaruh pendidikan agama, kebijakan negara, dan peran keluarga dalam membentuk persepsi pernikahan, serta mengembangkan strategi hukum Islam yang lebih adaptif terhadap perubahan sosial.
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Bin Syed Musa, Syed Zahiruddin, and Michelle Adlyn Anak Freddie Mail. “Finances in Marriage, The Perspective of Islam on Generation Z.” International Journal of Academic Research in Business and Social Sciences 14, no. 1 (January 12, 2024): Pages 1749-1774. https://doi.org/10.6007/IJARBSS/v14-i1/20597.
Bojic, Ljubisa. “AI Alignment: Assessing the Global Impact of Recommender Systems.” Futures 160 (June 2024): 103383. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.futures.2024.103383.
Brady, William J., M. J. Crockett, and Jay J. Van Bavel. “The MAD Model of Moral Contagion: The Role of Motivation, Attention, and Design in the Spread of Moralized Content Online.” Perspectives on Psychological Science 15, no. 4 (July 2020): 978–1010. https://doi.org/10.1177/1745691620917336.
Cantri Maesak, Opik Taupik Kurahman, and Dadan Rusmana. “Peran Pendidikan Islam Dalam Mengatasi Krisis Moral Generasi Z Di Era Globalisasi Digital.” Reflection : Islamic Education Journal 2, no. 1 (December 9, 2024): 01–09. https://doi.org/10.61132/reflection.v2i1.344.
Darmawan, Darmawan. “Pengaruh Angka Perceraian Di Pulau Jawa Akibat Kasus Kekerasan Dalam Rumah Tangga.” Ranah Research : Journal of Multidisciplinary Research and Development 7, no. 1 (November 25, 2024): 407–12. https://doi.org/10.38035/rrj.v7i1.1235.
Dewi, Lharasati, Yessi Nursa’adah, Almatubah, Bunga Angriani, and Davida A Nurratuain. “Marriage Is Not Scary: Edukasi Kesiapan Mental Dan Peran Pasangan Dalam Membentuk Rumah Tangga Yang Sehat Pada Dewasa Awal Di Kota Samarinda.” Community Empowerment : Jurnal Pengabdian Dan Pemberdayaan Masyarakat 2, no. 2 (2024). https://doi.org/10.15575/commen.v2i2.1005.
Disantara, Fradhana Putra. “Konsep Pluralisme Hukum Khas Indonesia Sebagai Strategi Menghadapi Era Modernisasi Hukum.” Al-Adalah: Jurnal Hukum Dan Politik Islam 6, no. 1 (June 14, 2021): 1–36. https://doi.org/10.35673/ajmpi.v6i1.1129.
Dixit, Anvita, Nandita Bhan, Tarik Benmarhnia, Elizabeth Reed, Susan M. Kiene, Jay Silverman, and Anita Raj. “The Association between Early in Marriage Fertility Pressure from In-Laws’ and Family Planning Behaviors, among Married Adolescent Girls in Bihar and Uttar Pradesh, India.” Reproductive Health 18, no. 1 (December 2021): 60. https://doi.org/10.1186/s12978-021-01116-9.
Hamid, Rizal Al, Arif Sugitanata, and Suud Sarim Karimullah. “Sinkronisasi Pendekatan Sosiologis Dengan Penemuan Hukum Islam Sui Generis Kum Empiris.” Bertuah: Jurnal Syariah Dan Ekonomi Islam 4, no. 1 (2023): 48–60.
Herdiansyah, Diki, and Rizka Khaira. “Menyelami Persepsi ‘Marriage Is Scary’ Dalam Perspektif Religius Dan Emosional Di Konteks Sosial Budaya Kontemporer Serta Faktor-Faktor Yang Mempengaruhi: Sebuah Literatur Review.” Prosiding Konseling Kearifan Nusantara 4 (2025).
Herlina, Herlina, Syarifuddin Syarifuddin, and Susiba Susiba. “Perspektif Al-Qur’an Dan Fikih Dalam Membangun Pendidikan Keluarga Yang Berkualitas.” Instructional Development Journal 6, no. 1 (2023): 27. https://doi.org/10.24014/idj.v6i1.24429.
Larzelere, Robert E., David Reitman, Camilo Ortiz, and Ronald B. Cox. “Parental Punishment: Don’t Throw Out the Baby with the Bathwater.” In Ideological and Political Bias in Psychology, edited by Craig L. Frisby, Richard E. Redding, William T. O’Donohue, and Scott O. Lilienfeld, 561–83. Cham: Springer International Publishing, 2023. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-031-29148-7_21.
Lestari, Melina, Sandhian Lasti Aimma, Shafa Fajriandini Cahyadi, Khaila Alfiory Lestari Legowo Putri, and Mona Maimun Mustofa. “Bagaimana Fenomena ‘Marriage Is Scary’ Dalam Pandangan Perempuan Generasi Z?” JURNAL BIMBINGAN DAN KONSELING AR-RAHMAN 10, no. 2 (December 27, 2024): 278. https://doi.org/10.31602/jbkr.v10i2.17187.
Mafaz, Fina Al, Abbas Arfan, and Fakhruddin Fakhruddin. “Marriage Is Scary Trend in the Perspective of Islamic Law and Positive Law.” Studi Multidispliner: Jurnal Kajian Keislaman 11, no. 2 (2024): 329–44. https://doi.org/10.24952/multidisipliner.v11i2.13555.
Manzilina, Savira and Ahmad Zaidanil Kamil. “PANDANGAN AL-QUR’AN DALAM MENYIKAPI MARRIAGE IS SCARY: Analisis Tafsir Audiovisual Ustaz Rifky Ja’far Pada Kanal YouTube ‘Sayap Dakwah TV.’” At-Tahfidz: Jurnal Ilmu Al-Qur’an Dan Tafsir 6, no. 1 (December 29, 2024): 16–37. https://doi.org/10.53649/at-tahfidz.v6i1.886.
MIR-HOSSEINI, ZIBA. “The Feminist Encounter With Muslim Legal Tradition.” Samyukta a Journal of Gender and Culture 2, no. 1 (2017). https://doi.org/10.53007/sjgc.2017.v2.i1.130.
Mostafapour, Vahid, Hossein Eskandari, Ahmad Borjali, Faramarz Sohrabi, and Mohammad Asgari. “A Narrative Exploration of Transformation of Moral, Social and Cultural Values among Generation Z in the Context of Marriage.” International Journal of Ethics and Society 6, no. 4 (January 2025). https://doi.org/10.22034/ijethics.6.4.40.
Nanda, Ambika Prasad, Diptiman Banerji, and Nihal Singh. “Situational Factors of Compulsive Buying and the Well-Being Outcomes: What We Know and What We Need to Know.” Journal of Macromarketing 43, no. 3 (September 2023): 384–402. https://doi.org/10.1177/02761467231180091.
Onyeakazi, Jude Chukwuma. “Coercion and Fear in Marriage Today (Can. 1103): A Soscio-Cultural Approach.” 2011.
Ren, Junyi. “Analysis of the Psychological Factors of Contemporary Youth’s Fear of Marriage in China.” International Journal of Frontiers in Sociology 4, no. 13 (2022). https://doi.org/10.25236/IJFS.2022.041305.
Riska, Herliana, and Nur Khasanah. “Faktor Yang Memengaruhi Fenomena Menunda Pernikahan Pada Generasi Z.” Indonesian Health Issue 2, no. 1 (February 28, 2023): 48–53. https://doi.org/10.47134/inhis.v2i1.44.
Riswandi, Riyan, Cucu Surahman, and Riris Hari Nugraha. “Analisis Perspektif Mahasiswa Muslim Gen-Z Terhadap Isu Marriage Is Scary.” Jurnal Pendidikan Dan Pembelajaran Indonesia (JPPI) 5, no. 1 (January 2, 2025): 10–25. https://doi.org/10.53299/jppi.v5i1.893.
Rosmalina, Asriyanti. “perDAKWAH LITERASI DIGITAL TERHADAP PERILAKU GENERASI MILENIAL DALAM BERMEDIA SOSIAL.” ORASI: Jurnal Dakwah Dan Komunikasi 13, no. 1 (July 23, 2022): 64. https://doi.org/10.24235/orasi.v13i1.10443.
Rubin, Jennifer D., Katharine Chen, and Allie Tung. “Generation Z’s Challenges to Financial Independence: Adolescents’ and Early Emerging Adults’ Perspectives on Their Financial Futures.” Journal of Adolescent Research, June 10, 2024, 07435584241256572. https://doi.org/10.1177/07435584241256572.
Shrum, L. J. “Cultivation Theory: Effects and Underlying Processes.” In The International Encyclopedia of Media Effects, edited by Patrick Rössler, Cynthia A. Hoffner, and Liesbet Zoonen, 1st ed., 1–12. Wiley, 2017. https://doi.org/10.1002/9781118783764.wbieme0040.
Siahaan, Dinta Martzella. “Penurunan Angka Pernikahan Di Indonesia: Fenomena Sosial Dan Budaya.” Kumparan (blog), 2024. https://kumparan.com/tatasiahaan9/penurunan-angka-pernikahan-di-indonesia-fenomena-sosial-dan-budaya-241OoNglkdo.
Tifanny, Rehilia, Putri Azhari, Aisyah Rizkiah Nasution, Nur Sakinah Apriani, and Hapni Laila Siregar. “Mengurai Fenomena ‘Marriage Is Scary’ Di Media Sosial: Perspektif Peran Perempuan Dalam Islam.” JURNAL KELUARGA SEHAT SEJAHTERA 22, no. 2 (December 30, 2024): 66–74. https://doi.org/10.24114/jkss.v22i2.64486.
Tirta, Karnia Dewi, and Sinta Nur Arifin. “Studi Fenomenologi : Marriage Is Scary Pada Generasi Z.” Teraputik: Jurnal Bimbingan Dan Konseling 8, no. 3 (2025). https://doi.org/10.26539/teraputik.833675.
Ye, Chen, Aini Azeqa Ma’rof, Haslinda Abdullah, and Hanina H. Hamsan. “The Influence of Perceived Social Pressure, Career Aspiration, Economic Independence, and Cultural Values on Attitude towards Marriage among Unmarried Women in China.” International Journal of Academic Research in Business and Social Sciences 14, no. 12 (December 11, 2024): Pages 1098-1113. https://doi.org/10.6007/IJARBSS/v14-i12/24047.
Zis, Sirajul Fuad, Rahmi Surya Dewi, and Zainal Efendi. “Model Perilaku Komunikasi Generasi Muda Dalam Pemanfaatan Media Digital Memasuki Era 4.0 Dan 5.0 Di Kecamatan Kuranji.” Jurnal Komunikasi Profesional 5, no. 1 (April 4, 2021). https://doi.org/10.25139/jkp.v5i1.3624.
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Krismono, & Dwi Oktaviani. (2025). ANALYSIS OF THE MARRIAGE IS SCARY PHENOMENON AMONG GENERATION Z: A PERSPECTIVE OF ISLAMIC LAW SOCIOLOGY. Sahaja: Journal Sharia and Humanities, 4(1), 422-439. https://doi.org/10.61159/sahaja.v4i1.403
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